I know its long, but I wrote that to disturb some on purpose. What happened to real women and real men. Not the ones that hold you down when you go to jail for five years for doing something stupid, but a real man/woman. You know, having a job, having adult conversations, traveling, creating business adventures, etc. What's wrong with the Black American Dream?
Now, Being married is fun and hard work. You get to see a person behind the scenes an final draft but what I want to know is, where are the Married Black folk? (* Note: Definitely don't need a spouse to be happy or show you happiness or love, just saying.) I want to hang out with more young black couples, but the pool is so shallow. Too many of us are caught up in our own heads. We forget that a marriage is push and pull. This is not a tv series where you get paid to be silly and then turn back around and be nice at the reunion. It's hardwork, but true love shouldnt be a forced challenge.
In a marriage, you you see the behind the scenes, first cut, and you even become the executive producer all in one. You can't just put on a good show like some do when they wear heels to a football games and family reunions..... oooops stepped on a toe or two LOL. But in all transparency, in a marriage, there are no fake scenes, only final cuts.
Too many people aspire to be married, but not willing to do what it takes to stay in a healthy and happy marriage. Marriage is a process and with any great outcomes, the process is always different and unique from any other challenge or test so far. Marriage is fun and all but it takes hard work. Women as wives train a man to be their husband and as men they train a woman to be their wife. Everyone needs a role to make the household a combined and individual success. That being said choose wisely as to whom you will fight with, not just against the world but when you both but heads, you and your spouse have to be strong enough to fight together for each other.
Deep right..... LOL, but in seriousness I want to see more Black Love and more completed families. That would be a beautiful and blessed sight like no other .
-LeFlore's Wife
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